10 Struggles Of Dating More Than One Person At Once

"Oh hey Tom, I mean Max. Wait, You're Forrest right?"

With dating apps, the internet and your local drinking ground, dating is now so easy that it's borderline lazy. All you need to do is swipe right, start a conversation and boom, you have a date for tomorrow night. Of course, it isn't that easy for everyone - there are many of you out there who are terrified by the idea of dating and don't have a clue where to start. It's probably been a while since anyone has asked you out, as apparently meeting people in person by bumping into them in the street is no longer a thing. And you're wary of cyber space love; what if they're all serial killers and psychos? Of course, you forget that you also have an online profile and you're relatively normal, so why can't everyone else be? Besides, you're busy with work, the gym and Netflix, it's not even like you have time to date anyone. But you've just got off the phone with your friend and she's dating four people at once. FOUR. Where does she find the time or the energy? Suddenly your social life seems very beige and the only time you go out at 3am is because you've ran out of batteries for your... um... toy. But when does dating multiple people at once become cheating? Do you let them know that they're not the only person that you're giving your attention to, or do you keep quiet and hope that one of them will turn out to be Mr Right?
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