It doesn't matter whether it's with a boyfriend, husband, friend or stranger: every girl has a whole ton of thoughts that unintentionally whizz through her brain while getting down and dirty. It's not a matter of distraction; sometimes we just can't help but think quite bizarre thoughts. Ranging from 'Why hasn't he just paid the slightest bit of attention to this REALLY expensive salmon-coloured underwear I bought just for him?' to 'Oh my lord Im in sexy-time heaven and I don't ever want to do anything else with my life ever again', there are a whole lot of issues that can subconsciously cause a womans mind to wander.
So guys: if you're having sex with a lady and you look down to see a vaguely glazed expression momentarily pass across her face, don't panic - she's not suffering mercury poisoning from swallowing one of her fillings. She's probably just considering what she wants to cook for dinner tonight or whether its worth getting a take-out, and whether she'll miss the beginning of X Factor.
It doesn't mean you're not being a great lay. She's just really good at multi-tasking (and chances are, you're probably considering whether a take-out is a good after-sex idea too...)
I love Stephen King and music festivals; I eat my toast upside down; I daydream about getting married probably a bit too much; and I wish every day for a pet sausage dog puppy (who never materialises – sob).