Unfortunately the chances are very slim at having someone like Grey fall for you. This time it's definitely not you, it's him. Someone who has such an interest in claiming a submissive means that you probably won't have a lot in common anyway. The guy plays the piano, can speak foreign languages fluently, can fly aircraft and has a busy work schedule that will mean you probably won't have a lot to talk about, especially if he refuses to go out and do everyday things like dinner and a movie. But then, he will gag you so you probably won't need to worry about awkward silences.