Regardless of whether you're single or not, your family will passive aggressively sign you up to a dating website and say "Merry Christmas." Unlike you, your family can't stand people who have tattoos, piercings and long hair - regardless of gender. You don't need to justify your lifestyle for your family and you're free to go out with whoever you want; you're not introducing them for their permission anyway it would just be nice if they could be nice.