Will and Jada's marriage vows had a few refreshing differences to the average exchange of promises. In their marriage vows, they didn't say "forsaking all others", but instead said "You will never hear I did something afterwards". Which is a little weird, because it insinuates a mistrust perhaps, but whatever floats their boat. Will Smith also reckons its healthy to fancy other people when you're married and has no qualms telling his wife when he does. "Our perspective is, you dont avoid whats natural and youre going to be attracted to people, Will explained. So sometimes we have the discussion: Wow, this or that girl is freaking gorgeous. Im not going to say anything to my buddies thats any different than what I say to my wife.