Okay, so there are some umpires out there who are clearly clueless and biased BUT, you still need to get on with it. You are pulled up as soon as youve gone offside, landed incorrectly or obstructed another player. You stand by their side and realise your mistake and then you fight for the ball again. She will admit to the times that shes messed up and shell make it right. It may take some time but shell get there in the end. The important thing to remember is not to punish each other, but to learn from your mistakes and move on together. Profound.