All guys like to create the impression that they're commitaphobes and are bound to the 'player' lifestyle for good. And sure, if you were to ask the dreaded question 'where is this going?' they're going to run a mile. But they're minds tend to wander when they're alone and no matter how much they may deny it...they do eventually want to settle down with a wife, kids and a home in the suburbs. To them it's embarrassing...to you it's just a relief that they have feelings!