Is there anything more intimidating than a tough, owns-her-own-business buisnesswoman? They are so smart and efficient, as approachable and majestic as Mount Fuji. Too bad there isnt a movie that gives pointers on how to connect with those sorts of ladies. Oh wait, there is. Youve Got Mail. How do you infiltrate this womans heart? Easy. Break her. Step on in there and shut down her business. What if she doesnt own a business per se, but still fits into this category? Simply find her lifes work, the thing shes dedicated all her time and energy to, and destroy that. As we always see in rom-coms, it is best to do it in a fun fashion. Burning her shop down most likely wont achieve the same results as, say, buying the building her shop is in and jacking up the rent. And once shes lost everything, and once she sees how powerful you are, the two of you are as good as married.