You feel like you have too much 'me' time and you want more 'us' time. Unfortunately this is how it's going to be until the two of you can properly be together. But it's also a good thing because you can concentrate on being the person that you want to be; if you want to learn another language or get into shape at the gym, then you have time to do that. Obviously, you'd rather spend time with your partner than learn French but you have the rest of your lives to be together, so just enjoy getting to know yourself in the mean time.