9 Adult Themes in the New Doctor Who – Is It Still a Kid’s Show?

By Mary Ogle /

3. Death

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Wow, beings die a lot in Doctor Who. I remember the first time I watched the new series in its entirety (not that long ago €“ straight through on Netflix) and thinking that it was a lot darker than I initially expected it would be, especially for a family show. But when I took some time to really contemplate it, I realized that actually made sense. Human beings die a lot in real life. It€™s only recently death has been hidden from us. For thousands of years your family and friends died right in front of you, usually at a fairly young age, and you were forced to deal with it immediately and move on. You had no other choice. It€™s unnatural and kind of ridiculous for us to pretend death doesn€™t exist and to lie to children about it. I have several friends who€™ve told me stories about how they were kept from the funerals of parents or grandparents when they were young and they feel scarred by the experience. They needed to be a part of those rituals so they could deal with those feelings and learn to accept what was happening. We do children a disservice by hiding this very important part of life from them. The Doctor has a terrible time dealing with death, as it is hard for him to understand, being almost immortal himself. When Rory finds his room at Winter Quay in €œAngels Take Manhattan€, the Doctor is the only one of the group who turns away from elder Rory dying in bed. We go through these struggles ourselves €“ the denial and the anger and the grief €“ but we all eventually have to accept it and continue our own existence. I suspect that kids who€™ve experienced the death of someone close to them find the Doctor€™s fears and insecurities rather comforting as he€™s going through the same kinds of emotions they are, and thus validating what they are feeling.