10 Things She Wishes You Were Doing In Bed

2. Stress Less About Endurance

Pop culture tells us that endurance is one of a man's most valuable sexual qualities. If you're not going at it hard for hours on end, changing positions every few minutes, then you're not sufficiently proving your virility, right? Wrong. While premature ejaculation isn't great for either partner, going too far in the other direction and delaying your orgasm for as long as possible can be exhausting for you both. If you're working so hard not to let go that you're barely mentally engaged, your partner may feel like you're not enjoying yourself. A happy balance can be struck between ruining your pants before you even get started and pounding away until dawn when you both have work in the morning. And if you do find yourself in an early explosion situation? Well, see above re: "post-play".
 
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Brydie is an Australian writer and performer living in London and she complains exactly the same amount about the weather as every other Australian living in London. Yes, that is her natural lip colour, no, she will not be taking any further questions at this time.