While we're on the topic of female orgasms (as we all should be, more often), it's a simple biological fact that sometimes women need a little extra help. It'd be wonderful if all it took was hands and mouths and the occasional penis but not everyone is built that way. If a woman needs some lube to get things started, the stupidest thing you can do as her partner is take offence. Actually, that's the second stupidest thing. The stupidest thing is just ploughing ahead and assuring her that you can get her ready for action all by yourself. And if your partner is keen to add a toy to the mix, for the love of all things sexy do not feel intimidated. Variety is the spice of life and also no part of you can vibrate.
Brydie is an Australian writer and performer living in London and she complains exactly the same amount about the weather as every other Australian living in London. Yes, that is her natural lip colour, no, she will not be taking any further questions at this time.
