Some people think that if you date somebody who is androgynous and you use a dildo, then why dont you just date a guy? The real question is, why do people risk having heterosexual sex when, guys, a hole is just a hole, and ladies, why not just date an androgynous girl who uses a dildo because, lets be honest, theyre probably much better at using it and dont have all that hair on their back and in their ears. Just a thought.