This point isn't just about sex but...well, it's mostly about sex. Women are always being encouraged to ask for what they want in the bedroom because it's apparently such a mystery that it can't possibly be unravelled without detailed instruction. Which is fine, provided the person you're instructing is into the idea of being taught. An older guy will often react poorly to being told that something's not working and you'd like to try something else. Once their pride is hurt it's hard to get them back in the mood. A younger guy will trust that your added years of experience have taught you something worth knowing. And they really want to know it. So pay it forward- this won't just benefit you. Ladies, if you sleep with a younger dude this weekend and he has any clue what he's doing, there is probably another older woman out there deserving of your gratitude.
Brydie is an Australian writer and performer living in London and she complains exactly the same amount about the weather as every other Australian living in London. Yes, that is her natural lip colour, no, she will not be taking any further questions at this time.
