5. I Dont Care What Theyre Going To Say.
Ultimately you need to do what makes you happy: you need to be the person who makes you happy. If you are surrounded by people who constantly tear you down, you build yourself up and you prove them wrong. There is no greater motivation than hearing someone say you cant. However, be productive about it - maybe not as productive as running away and making an ice castle - but yeah, value your opinion of yourself and dont base your ideas on what everyone seems to be saying.