https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k7in-9E3ImQ The Song You Know The only song by Dave Matthews high school couples are allowed to slow dance to at their prom. It's a little sad and a little sexual, like the best DMB songs generally are. Why It's Not So RomanticThe theme of this song is pretty straightforward, falling in line with several other "lonely guy sees girl he wants to be with but can't be with because of an unexplained reason" songs, like James Blunt's "You're Beautiful." The difference is that, when the narrators of those other songs are staring awkwardly at a girl, it's on a bus or from a park bench or in some other public location. Here, though, we discover Dave is watching her through her window, probably perched in a tree dressed in a parka with leaves glued onto it. "Hike up your skirt a little more and show the world to me," he says, watching her through her window. This isn't a face-to-face request in the midst of a sensual evening together. It's Dave, sitting outside her house with his hand firmly on his crotch. But it only gets worse when he starts repeating "I come into you. I come into you. In a boy's dream." Which boy's dream? Don't know and, quite frankly, don't care to know. This isn't just reading too far into the lyrics, either. Dave confirmed the "peeping Tom" theory when he performed "Crash Into Me" on an episode of VH1's Storytellers.