10 Things Girls Think About During Your First Time Together

9. How Much Foreplay Is Too Much Foreplay?

You're wanting to enjoy the moment for as long as he'll allow and you know that it only makes him want you more - when you deliberately refuse to put his penis where he wants to put it. Besides, you love foreplay because you're at least guaranteed an orgasm which doesn't always happen with sex. But what do you do when he just skips foreplay and goes straight in for it? It would be fine if you guys had been going out for a while and were maybe a bit tired but this is your first time, so why isn't he taking his time with you and making every inch of your skin feel intolerably sensitive? You're not a guy, it's never going to be okay to just shove their head down to your crotch and get on with it.
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