If a man is paying you enough attention, he'll notice when another guy is hitting on you. Say the two of you are standing at a bar; he's ordering drinks, and the man on your other side starts talking to you. Sure, you can act cold and cruel and ignore this stranger, but sometimes that's just rude. It's ok to meet new people and have conversations. What's not ok is when you're quite obviously being hit on and your boyfriend is completely oblivious. How has he not seen this man shuffle a little to close to you for comfort? Your S.O should be the one to save you from this awkward situation - not by saying anything, but just by putting his arm around your shoulders or introducing himself. Urgh, it's so annoying when they don't notice. It makes you almost tempted to carry on talking to the strange male in question just to see how far he might go before your boyfriend starts to notice
I love Stephen King and music festivals; I eat my toast upside down; I daydream about getting married probably a bit too much; and I wish every day for a pet sausage dog puppy (who never materialises – sob).
