10 Things She Wishes You Were Doing In Bed

7. But Don't Ask Too Many Questions

All that being said, some women aren't comfortable talking about their sexual tastes and might not respond well to a sit-down interview before shagging. If you make a couple of inquiries and she declines to answer, don't push the subject. The best way to ensure your partner will open up (verbally that is- come on mate, out of the gutter) is to make it clear that you're into her and wish to express that in a way she'll enjoy. Also, while questions during sex are extremely important to ensure you have consent (for every act) a constant stream of them can be distracting. Asking "Is this good? Am I the best you've ever had? Am I basically a god? WELL?" is not as attractive as you might assume.
 
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Brydie is an Australian writer and performer living in London and she complains exactly the same amount about the weather as every other Australian living in London. Yes, that is her natural lip colour, no, she will not be taking any further questions at this time.