It takes an average of 6 minutes for a man to orgasm when he's with a partner or 3 minutes when he's giving himself a hand. In contrast, women get there in 4 minutes alone but with a partner it's often more like 10-20. You're probably a busy, modern man with a lot of important places to be but unless you are required to perform lifesaving surgery in the next half hour, you do have time to get your partner off. It's important that you don't make negative comments about the amount of time it takes your partner to orgasm. Telling her it's never taken you this long before will likely lead to her giving up or faking it. Let her relax and feel as though you're willing to give her all the time in the world.
Brydie is an Australian writer and performer living in London and she complains exactly the same amount about the weather as every other Australian living in London. Yes, that is her natural lip colour, no, she will not be taking any further questions at this time.
