Chances are, if youre somewhere approaching being a grown-up, you probably know that jobs nowadays generally come either from the internet or networking. Lesbian dating is the same. If gay bars dont turn up trumps (or if your town doesnt have any), youre going to be dating online. Anyone whos filled out an online profile will know that youre essentially applying for dates, carefully highlighting your good side with photos from five years ago and key (overused) words like exploring and chilled out. Your other option is getting your friend who knows a lesbian at work to introduce you to her and try and figure something out from there. This is usually a bad idea, but if youre the only gays in the village then, hey, its something!