20 Devastating Songs About Heartbreak

18. River - Joni Mitchell

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GpFudDAYqxY Love is like Christmas, it comes round regularly but it always feels rare €“ and boy do you miss it when it's gone. Joni Mitchell is no novice when it comes to writing of the matters of the heart, and I knew I had to include her in this list, but what song would best show what an eloquent writer she is about the vagaries of the heart? Initially I plumped for 'Big Yellow Taxi', its line 'Don't it always seem to go, that you don't know what you've got til' it's gone?' sounded like a perfect addition to this tale. Then I remembered her masterwork of heartbreak, 'Blue' and found 'River' - her take on a Christmas carol and a perfect fit for this list. The song includes several parts of the five stages of grief, depression being the chief amongst them - and the lyrics are agonisingly sad "I'm selfish and I'm sad, now I've gone and lost the best baby I ever had. I wish I had a river I could skate away on." Using the melody from 'Jingle Bells' gets the music to set the theme €“ it's a time for festivity, but not for everyone, its cold and she's alone, whilst others around her rejoice at being with the people they love. This is a perfect snapshot of regret and solitude expressed in just over four minutes.
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