12 Hacks For A Mind-Blowing Sex Life
10. Use Your Brain
Guess what the biggest sexual organ is? No, not that.
It's the brain, genius. Regardless of where blokes are said to keep their brains, desire, pleasure, excitement, arousal are pretty much all in your head.
It's not all about pure and simple friction either, you can heighten your sexual experiences using a range of stimuli for all the senses. Try to pay attention to visuals, sounds, tastes and scents, as well as touch, to make sure you're totally present in the moment in both mind and body.
Studies have even shown that there are certain scents that get men and women in the mood for a bit of hanky-panky. For the blokes, it is apparently the smell of lavender and pumpkin pie that gets them hot under the collar, whereas for women the smell of liquorice and, er, cucumbers (no laughing at the back) will get those engines running.
There have even been a few talented individuals throughout history who have been able to "think themselves off", meaning that they are able to reach orgasm without anyone so much as laying a finger on them using only the power of the mind. That would be one hell of a party trick.