Sharp Objects Ending Explained
3. How Much Did Alan Know?
Even now, after the show has revealed all its secrets, Alan remains one of the narrative's biggest mysteries. Kept at arm's length by Adora (something which, in the book, is on account of their marriage essentially being arranged to save the Preaker name), it's never fully revealed just how much the distant husband (but admittedly loving father) knew about both his wife's treatment of the children or Amma's extra-circular activities.
It's the former crime he's the most complicit in, however, and the final episode makes it clear that he knows something is wrong with the way Adora keeps feeding her children "medicine" from the blue bottle. Likewise, he's present when she's making the poisonous concoction, something he must have seen happen plenty over the decades he'd been with the family. At the very least he must have clocked on at one point that she was making remedies with antifreeze.
Then again, Alan's usually left out of family affairs, totally at the whim of whatever Adora tells him to do. So while he probably does know more than he let on (or let himself believe), he was probably too busy listening to his music to get too caught up in it.