There's a lot of pressure on women regarding orgasms, isn't there? How many orgasm-advice articles have you read online on the off-chance that you might find one that actually makes a whole lot of difference to your sex life? Women must be so sick of hearing the whole 'it's harder for women to orgasm than men' mantra - while scientifically that might be true, there're still plenty of us out here who have experienced a whole ton of orgasms (lucky us!). Weird orgasm advice, from 'put your legs behind your head and lean back until you look like a curled up baby deer' to 'have him stroke your toes for that extra push towards a climax' are just off-putting; no woman is the same as the next when it comes to how she loves to, well, come. Location, position, atmosphere, emotion; all these elements make for a different way to orgasm when you're having sex (or even when you're having fun alone). So instead of focusing on the supposed problems women are experiencing on a daily basis concerning their vagina-exploding abilities, let us instead glorify in how great orgasms can be and how many different ways there actually are to have one.
I love Stephen King and music festivals; I eat my toast upside down; I daydream about getting married probably a bit too much; and I wish every day for a pet sausage dog puppy (who never materialises – sob).
