10 Worst Things The Friends Gang Have Ever Done To Each Other
5. Ross Made A List
For the first few seasons of Friends, Ross and Rachel could never figure out how to like each other at the same time. Ross was smitten with Rachel while she was dating Paolo, and once Ross had moved on with Julie, Rachel found herself smitten with him.
Eventually the two shared a kiss while Ross was still dating Julie, forcing him to make a choice between them. Naturally, he enlisted the help of Chandler and Joey for this, and at the former's suggestion he made a pros and cons list for each girl.
As if it wasn't bad enough that he is seeing two women at the same time, to then write everything bad about Rachel and use it as a case against her - everything she is self-conscious about - is incredibly hurtful. If this is something he has to do to decide if he wants to be with her, then he doesn't deserve to be with her.
Later in the episode Rachel sums this up perfectly when Ross suggests that there would be nothing she could write on a list that would make him not want to be with her. She simply tells him that she would never stoop so low as to make a list in the first place.