10 Things You Should Know About Dating a Cinephile

6. We Secretly and Unfairly Judge Everyone We Meet By Their Favorite Movie

Movie taste is very telling. There's often quite a difference in personality between people who's favorite movies are the likes of The Deer Hunter and Schindler's List versus those who swear up and down that the remake of The Nutty Professor is a cinematic staple. And you should never completely judge who someone is based on some of their favorite movies. This article proves that some of the best minds in Hollywood unabashedly love films that make us tilt our heads with questioning. But since cinephiles are prone to bridge the gap between real life and celluloid, you should know that we're very much getting a feel for who you are based upon your subjective film taste. For some of us, it's a good barometer for film discussion and if we'll be able to make a connection with you at all. If you tell a hardened Tarantino fan that the last Tarantino movie you enjoyed was Lock, Stock, and Two Smoking Barrels, then you've just unknowingly shut yourself off from being seen as relatable. Often times, cinephiles will correct your mistake (sometimes pompously), and then make an effort to change the subject from film, seeing as that you probably won't find much common ground. This isn't to say you can't get along or date someone who's favorite movie is Band of Outsiders if yours is just The Outsiders, but you should be prepared for that conversational shut down.
 
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Cameron Carpenter is an aspiring screenwriter, current film and journalism student, and self-diagnosed cinephile, which only sounds bad in certain circles. Devoted fan of comics, movies, theater, Jesus Christ, Sidney Lumet, and Peter O'Toole, he sometimes spends too much time on his Scribd and comicbookmovie.com, but doesn't think you're one to judge, devoted reader. You can follow him on Twitter to watch him talk to people you didn't know exist. Oh, and Daredevil is quite the big deal around here (my head).